Slow down.
Don’t try to rush them from one milestone to the next. Try not to wish your way through any phase, no matter how sleep-deprived you may be in those bleary-eyed first days, or how weary you become of dealing with a defiant toddler in the throes of his terrible two’s.
Slow down.
Play that rousing game of Uno. Read that favorite story for the umpteenth time. Run through the sprinklers, and play in the snow.
So now it’s your turn. The video I’ve referenced is below. I hope you’ll watch it, ponder it, and then weigh in:
What would you tell yourself?
Having grown up in a home brimming with sewing notions and paintbrushes, Amy has a deep love for all things creative. On any given day, you’ll find her knee-deep in her latest creative endeavor, with projects ranging from sewing and crafts to home decor and kid-friendly ideas. Amy believes that everyone, regardless of skill level or experience, possesses the ability to create something beautiful, and Positively Splendid was born of her passion for helping others harness their innate creative potential.
togetherforgood says
Don’t forget to smile.
Grammy Goodwill says
Oh, I agree so much. When my children were small, I cross-stitched a verse saying much the same thing. I hope I took enough time.
Jenn says
A mother’s instinct is amazing and SO… very powerful. Trust it… listen to it… believe in it and it will not let you down. One very important message I would have told my pre-child self. Listen to your ♥… always.
Arntzie says
Your post today really touched my heart. For you see, I am struggling deeply with the ‘completion’ of our family. It’s amazing really as I didn’t plan to have children. But due to a drastic change in my life, I came home one day and told my hubby I was ready! I cried the entire time I was telling him this. I was SCARED OUT OF MY WITS! Three children later, I wouldn’t change a thing. I love my children more than anything in the world! What would I tell my pre-child self…. What are you waiting for!
Christy says
So true. I have also been trying to slow down and enjoy my children at this young age.
Sharlyn says
Mother, O Mother, come shake out your cloth,
Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
Hang out the washing, make up the bed,
Sew on a button and butter the bread.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
Oh, I’ve grown as shiftless as Little Boy Blue,Lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo.
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peek-a-boo
The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
And out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
But I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo
Look! Aren’t his eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullaby, rockaby lullaby loo.
The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
But children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
– Ruth Hulbert Hamilton
Congrats on little George!
Jessica @ Sunny Tuesday says
I’m still new at this, but I would say to keep an open mind. The things I scoffed at have now become a way of life for me! 🙂
Anna says
oh, how I love this post and this video! I think I would tell myself to pray more. read my Bible more. play more. be more intentional.
new to your blog. 😉 love it!
Laura at Ms. Smartie Pants says
I love this idea! You are so wise to take it all in. I wrote a few months ago about my 3rd child leaving home, only having one child left at home and how I wish I could turn back the clock and do it all over again! Enjoy this time, all of it is memorable! http://ms-smartie-pants.blogspot.com/2011/05/and-then-there-was-1.html
Big D and Me says
I shared this video on my blog too – I love it and think it has such a good message – take moments just to look at your little one, it will be hard but it will be the most amazing journey
Jeni says
The days are long, but the years are short. Treasure the moments.
And – your heart will open and soften in ways that you never expected.
Amy at Ameroonie Designs says
My advice? Never say never. Be open to whatever this journey has in store for you- it will change you in ways you could never anticipate and bless you in ways you could never imagine. It is worth every. single. tear.
xoxo,
Amy
The Morris' says
Enjoy the small things.
Don’t tell your kiddos no just because you can. Have a reason.
Nana says
Love the poem. My daughter is having twins in March. I’m thinking about how to incorporate the poem into the nursery. Thanks for sharing today.